A family living with CGD.

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CGD is a rare, inherited disease that may affect immediate and extended family members physically. A CGD diagnosis can also have emotional effects on all family members. Not all family members will be open to talking about genetic conditions—every family member can have a different opinion and perspective, and navigating those conversations isn't always easy.

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Respect each other’s perspectives

While the decision to be tested for CGD might seem clear or even obvious to some people, not everyone may share that opinion. Make sure to start a conversation by being receptive to a family member’s concerns and point of view.

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Be open and honest

Acknowledge up front that this is a difficult conversation to have and that being honest with each other about reservations or fears is the best way to move forward.

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Be supportive

A CGD diagnosis and all of the information that comes with it can be difficult news to absorb. Be a supportive ally to family members while they sort through complex emotions associated with a CGD diagnosis.

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Acknowledge barriers

Every family is unique and may face different barriers to getting a CGD diagnosis. They may have difficulty finding a specialist, be in denial about their symptoms, or have a misunderstanding about the cost of testing. Whatever the case may be, try to acknowledge those barriers and offer helpful information and encouragement.

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Focus on what can be controlled

If a family member is feeling guilty regarding a CGD diagnosis, it’s helpful to remember that no one controls the genes they inherit or pass on. They are simply a part of the person, not something to be blamed for.

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Be prepared

Approach the conversation ready with information to share about CGD and testing. If a family member wants to know more, that information is ready to help point them in the right direction.

Conversation starters and tips

It can be hard to find the right time to start the conversation about CGD with immediate or extended family members. That’s why coming prepared with conversation ideas and information may be helpful. Education is key when talking about CGD with family members. Select example situations below to see potential scenarios, approaches, and next steps.

Conversation starters

Response: "Congratulations, that’s so exciting! You are going to make a great mom! Now that you are considering having kids, maybe it’s a good time to speak with your doctor about testing for CGD to see if you’re a carrier. Have you had a chance to do so?"

Response: "I’m sorry you’re not feeling well. I recognize some of the symptoms you’re describing, because I’ve had issues with [insert symptom[s]] as well. Since CGD is genetic and runs in families, you may want to discuss your symptoms with your doctor. For me, it was worth discussing with my doctor and getting a dihydrorhodamine (DHR)/genetic test for CGD. Now I know where my symptoms are coming from and I can work with my doctor to manage them much better. I can give you a referral if interested."

Conversation resistance

Response: “It’s important to talk about CGD and testing. Our family’s health may be at risk if we don’t communicate.”

Response: “CGD is an inherited genetic disorder. My diagnosis was confirmed with a genetic test and that means my immediate and extended family could also be affected by CGD.”

Response: “I understand not wanting to be a carrier, but CGD is a genetic condition, and we can’t control which genes we inherit. The only way to be sure about your status is to be tested.”

Response: “Maybe in the past we have ignored talking about our health, but I think it’s important we try to make a better effort now that I have had my own CGD diagnosis confirmed.”

Response: “Me either! But remember: Genetic test results are protected under the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act (HIPAA) of 1996. Nobody but you and your doctor will know your test results.”

Response: “Luckily, there are no-cost testing options that are available to you and me. You should bring it up with your doctor and see what they advise.”

There may be barriers to getting tested, but there are also easy solutions to offer

Send a letter

Consider writing a letter to immediate and extended family members as an option for getting the word out to more people.

Share no-cost testing options

Information about both dihydrorhodamine (DHR) and genetic testing options is available to share on this site.

See CGD testing information and resources.

 

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